Students, parents and teachers have different opinions on the topic: the relationship between girls and boys in middle schools. But as we all know, association with boys or girls of the opposite sex is not only good for study, but also useful for the comprehensive development of adolescents. Developing a good relationship with growing up girls or boys is a good way to learn more about people. It can be fun and exciting.

But why do so many parents, sometimes teachers too, pay so much attention to teenagers who have a good friend with whom they share a good relationship? There remains a sensitive issue here that adolescents may confuse the relationship between them with love between adults. And what worries parents the most is that the teenagers are not mature enough to handle the relationship properly. In the opinion of the students, they spend a lot of time with their classmates every day and, of course, they have the need to develop that relationship. But your parents may ask you a lot of questions at home about your friends, especially about classmates, boys or girls. There seems to be a gap between children and parents.

As a teacher, I would like to express my opinion on the subject. The relationship between girls and boys is mainly friendship but not “love” as mentioned.

For parents, the most important thing is to maintain a relaxed atmosphere in the family so that children can really feel the love of parents. Teenagers have the ability to understand their parents. So try to communicate with your children effectively and listen to them, but without emphasizing what they should and should not do. Their children need to relax and parents need to trust them and believe that their children will surely have their own success in life.

There is more I want to say to our students. Teenagers should naturally associate with their classmates. Also, you should be brave enough to face your parents’ questions by letting them know about your concern and introducing them to your best friends. Let there be no gap between you and your parents. As a student, it is really important to study. So keeping a balance is the most important thing. For example, you can consider keeping a certain distance with boys or girls. Also, after playing with your friends, spend enough time working and studying. Also, a healthy relationship will help you discover your similarities and differences, your priorities, your goals and dreams. Therefore, mutual respect is one of the fundamental pillars in building this relationship, as well as any good and solid relationship. So try to make it grow. Learning to deal with your classmates is a growth course and can make you mature. In fact, then, we can enjoy our study, our school life more.