Knowing when and how to flirt can be a bit tricky, especially if you’re new to the lesbian and bisexual scene. Here are some guidelines to help you get started flirting with lesbian, bisexual, or bi-curious women.
Think about how you feel when someone flirts with you. You probably enjoy the attention and feel flattered even if you are not interested in the person you are flirting with. They will like to feel the same way more when you throw subtle flirtations at them. Just gather your confidence and give it a try.
Flirting can be obvious, like walking and engaging in conversation, or more subtle, like moving your body towards her while showing a slight smile. Lesbians especially enjoy visual flirting. We are all different, but women who are attracted to women generally seem to flirt in a more subtle way than men.
Flirting is part of the art and part of the observation of human behavior. Here is a list of some common ways that women flirt with other women;
-Start conversation with her
-Congratulating her
-Eye contact block
-Looking at her lips while you speak
-Smiling at him
-Smiling with your eyes
-Standing or sitting nearby
-Inclined towards her
-Biting your lips
-Twisting or playing with hair
-Touch her on the arm or leg to make a point.
-Remove lint from your clothes (even if it’s not really there)
If you’re heading out to town and ready to flirt, try these tips to get ready. The first step is to look and feel good before even walking out the door. Dress in something that makes you feel good and confident. When you arrive, be sure to keep your head up and walk with an air of confidence. Relax and smile. Get out there and mix. Talk to people and flirt when you feel attracted. See if they respond the same way.
When all else fails, just come over and say hello, my name is (insert your name here), what is yours? If you end up in conversation, that’s great. If not, you were being friendly and that’s always a good thing, right? This simple approach works more often than you think.
Remember that most of the women you meet in a bar or in a social setting will be sitting there waiting for someone to approach them. You probably haven’t read our guide on how to flirt with women. Be brave, go find them!
