Here is a metaphor for the law of attraction. When you’re baking cookies, you don’t have to keep opening the oven door to see if they’re done.
Or put another way, if you intend to grow an orange tree, you shouldn’t keep digging up the seeds to see if they’ve sprouted.
Now, according to the law of attraction, if you’re manifesting something, you should do the work, do the meditations, whatever, and then let it go. Let nature do the rest.
If you keep checking back to see how your results are going, you’ll mess everything up.
How does this apply to seduction?
First, realize that attraction happens unconsciously. She can’t logically decide to be attracted to you any more than you can rationally choose which girls you’d like to sleep with. (All else being equal).
Now this can be a difficult concept for many guys to grasp. Girls are attracted to boys for completely different reasons than boys are attracted to girls.
When a guy sees a girl, he knows immediately if he likes her or not. It happens in a fraction of a second.
But when the girl sees a boy, she still doesn’t know. If she’s physically attracted to you, that’s just one piece of the puzzle. To really feel deep attraction and emotional longing, she will need to interact with him.
Talk to him, try him out a few times, maybe even spend some time away from him.
BUT (and this is crucial) just because it takes time for you to become attracted DOESN’T MEAN it’s a conscious process.
It’s just unconscious that you want to bang that big-breasted hottie you just saw a fraction of a second ago.
It’s just that for girls, that unconscious process stretches out over time.
Like the cookies in the oven, or the seeds on the ground.
Guys who aren’t sure if he likes her or not will want to force the issue. Like opening the oven door or digging up the seeds.
But if your unconscious hasn’t been triggered yet, forcing the decision into your conscious mind will mess up the process.
Which means you’ll kill any chance you get.
This can be the hardest thing for a guy to do. But if his unconscious is in the process of becoming attracted to you, LET IT HAPPEN.
Don’t talk about it, don’t try to get any kind of validation or reassurance.
Think of female attraction as Fight Club.
Do you remember the first rule of fight club? NEVER talk about Fight Club.
Let the seeds of attraction grow. NEVER ask her to consciously accept that she likes you, that she is attracted to you, or that you had fun the other night.
Just assume it’s happening and let it happen some more.
When she passes the point of no return, when she is totally interested in you, and she doesn’t get tired of you, YOU WILL KNOW.
If you’re not sure, IT HASN’T HAPPENED YET.
Until then, let it happen.
And of course using the triggers of the unconscious mind to help it get there will give you a better chance.
