The Great Lovers are experts in giving gifts to their ladies.
It is obvious to give a gift on Christmas, birthday, wedding anniversary, Valentine’s Day, Sweetest Day and so on. But are you thinking about your lady in non-holiday times?
Here is a short list of events and reasons to give your lady a gift:
o Anniversary of your first date
o Send flowers to her workplace. She will love it and you will get many benefits from that gift.
o Bring her flowers for no reason.
o Buy him a small chocolate treat when you go to the store.
o Are you going on a business trip? Always bring him some trinket from your destination, and I’m not talking about the mini bottles of shampoo in your hotel room.
o Buy her a sexy underwear or a nightgown.
or “Attachika!” gift when you accomplish something special at home or at work, or reach a personal goal, like losing weight.
o Grab a sticky note pad and write redeemable favors on the pages, like free back rub, free car wash, free movies, free foot massage, free bathroom cleaning. She can then pull out the favor and give it to you to redeem the prize.
o Cook for her. Make her a meal that she doesn’t have to do anything but eat.
o Jewelry is always a big hit. But vintage jewelry can be bigger. Look in antique stores for little trinkets.
o Take your wife on a mini weekend car vacation.
o Buy her a massage at a day spa.
o Chocolate when you are in a bad mood or depressed, or experiencing a setback.
o Take her candle shopping and buy some scented candles that SHE likes.
o Keep the kids entertained and away from the house throughout the day so she can have some quiet time in her own home.
o Throw her a party for no reason other than your love for her. Plan it all yourself… it could be very simple, a couple of pizzas and some friends. But the party is for her. Ask each friend to bring a card with a personal message for her about what they admire about her.
These are just a few ideas to get you thinking creatively. There are always special things you can do for your lady. But you have to LISTEN MORE. She will give you hints about things that she likes and often she will be surprised that you listened and took note of what she said. The point of these types of gifts is to SHOW her that you love her and that you think of her often. Like the Great Lovers do!
