No tied up committed relationship is about casual relationships with none. Friends with benefits never work. A no-strings-attached relationship is about sex, not friendship. In fact, as long as you’re single, you can date anyone other than your pick-up friends. If you start investing energy with someone at one point in your life, the lines of your relationship will blur. The relationship is just sex and that’s it, so keep it that way.

To remain detached, you must keep things on a need-to-know basis. Try not to talk about your days, contemplations, inclinations, or any personal niceties of your lives. After you’re done with the writing, don’t hang around. There are no sleepovers here. He only needs to satisfy you physically, not internally, so keep calm and go home.

You don’t need to set up with a bunch of different people. Constantly remind yourself that you are a lonely woman, totally single. Never let your attachment stop the traffic of your reality.

You are not his better half, so you do not have to determine his status. You have to remain genuinely uninvolved, so you shouldn’t care what he’s doing when he’s not with you. Focus on what you do when you’re not with him, since this is your life and he’s hardly a part of it.

In order for this to work, you both need to be on the same page, so talk and explain your lonely lady status. If both are transparently aware of this not-so-easy relationship, then there is no unbalanced mess and both will be freed from the angst of needing something more.

You don’t have the added worry of worrying about what your partner thinks of you, so this is the ideal opportunity to investigate all your deepest dreams. Just because they don’t discuss the inner subtleties of their lives doesn’t mean they can’t discuss anything. The only thing you should discuss is sex. Try not to hesitate to reveal to him what you need.

Now as never before you have to try safe sex. You have no idea what he does when he’s not with you or how wild he’s been before. This is a relationship you don’t need to pay attention to in this way, so just relax. Without hidden obligations must be calm and tolerant. You don’t have the pressure that comes with genuine connections. So cherish the opportunity and each climax while it lasts.

Turning a no-strings-attached affair into a serious relationship is complex but possible. The first is to commit. Both of them were initially having an affair that neither was committed to, but now things are getting serious. For a stable relationship, both partners must be emotionally invested in it. This poses the biggest challenge. Communication is something else. Despite the need to nurture feelings in a kind of relationship, at any point they stop you.

It’s better to accept that a no-strings-attached relationship means you’re sexually intimate, but that’s about as far as your relationship goes without any strings attached.