Unfortunately guys, the representation of lesbians in the porn world and also, for the most part, our own view of lesbians is totally different from the real world. However, there is much we can learn from lesbians to improve our own performance!
So believe it or not, the innocent pillow fights or hair braiding that naturally leads to a hardcore girl in 69, followed by some hard work with straps, just doesn’t happen much in the real world, hardly ever actually. ! If that’s your idea of lesbian sex, sorry to say, but you’re way off! The best thing, however, is that by learning about the true lesbian experience and then adapting it to your own lovemaking, your own sexual performance, and ultimately your and your partner’s sexual satisfaction will explode to heights never before reached.
Most men would be absolutely devastated to learn that most women think that men are pretty boring. Most lesbians, especially in relationships, report a significantly higher level of sexual satisfaction than heterosexual women. This is largely because women have vastly different needs in bed and during sex than men, which is why lesbians are so satisfied and satisfied. They know what they want and how to do it!
Men can sometimes treat sex as work or a means to an end and it can seem like a fairly planned event. For example, getting her wet and prepping her, getting inside her, thrusting furiously until the rocks are off, and then turning around and falling asleep.
Women want, and lesbians bring, a completely different experience to the bedroom. Kissing, touching, sucking, stroking and massaging are things that women love. They drive them crazy and on the edge. Have you spent time in these areas or have you been ignoring them?
Because men sometimes have a sequence of events in mind that always lead to the ultimate goal of the man blowing his load, the magic ingredient of successful sex and love is missing, forgotten, or simply ignored. And that ingredient is in maximizing the pleasure of both parties, or to put it bluntly, your enjoyment and pleasure! So while men just want to climax, the experience is very different for women.
When two lesbians have sex or make love, they are not selfishly thinking about how it will end for them and neither are they thinking of a common goal of a thunderous orgasm and that’s it! For women, as we should all know by now, an orgasm is not the end of the act. Plus, every look, touch, and feel between orgasms is part of the overall experience. They savor the softness of their skin, the warmth of their partner’s body, the smell of their breath and body, and most importantly, how their partner reacts and responds to every touch and touch. It is primarily about two people coming together for mutual pleasure and shared intimacy.
Great I hear you say! So lesbians have it all; an internal knowledge and understanding of exactly what a woman wants and how to give it to her. Well yeah that’s true, but the great news for you and indeed for all men is that this works for us with our straight partners too. You don’t need to have a vagina to make love sensually and emotionally with your partner! Women want intimacy, women want foreplay, and most of all, women want to be pleased and involved in the whole process of making love and sex and not just a mere tool to help you break free from the rocks. Don’t worry guys, it’s not all roses and massages, your girl will undoubtedly have moments when all she wants is a good, quick, rough and ready fuck! All I’m trying to tell you here is that for the most part, if you want to get great sex on a regular basis, you certainly have to play your part in delivering great sex!
I have found that the more I work on pleasing women first and without worrying about my own needs; They give me everything back with interest! After men have an orgasm, all we want to do is go to sleep! Give your woman orgasms and she will usually move on, often in an even greater state of arousal and enjoyment. Once you bring your partner to this level, you will find that they are more than happy to give you practically anything you want.
The key message here is to remember that women absolutely enjoy the pleasure they bring you. Although there are a few out there, most women don’t really like to criticize men as something they specifically enjoy. They do it and then they like it for the pleasure it gives them as a result of pleasing you!
Making love in such a selfless way ignites and satisfies all of our senses and is pretty much the main reason lesbians do it better than us! Don’t miss out on the pleasure that you too can give and earn. Learn what you can from lesbians and then go back and put it into practice at home. I guarantee that your partner will absolutely appreciate it!
