Children grow up, need I say more? They usually outgrow their rags before wearing them down, so they can at least be passed on to someone else’s children. Babies in particular seem to get bigger every day and that size from 6 to 9 months soon becomes 9 to 12 and so on. Parents should constantly buy larger sizes and go past yesterday’s size. There should be a “lending library” for baby things that are too small for you! And taking them with you while shopping always presents its own challenges. Here are some of the more stress-filled tasks involved and perhaps some helpful tips to cope with during a shopping trip with Junior.

1. Whether you have a baby in a stroller or a toddler that you can use a harness to control or even a slightly older baby who will hold your hand and cling to you, the first consideration is keeping them and their curiosity under control while you shop.

2. Limit the shopping time because the baby will soon be hungry, sleepy, or just angry that you are not only paying attention to it. Give them a hug and make sure it will be over soon.

3. Carry a bottle or sippy cup with you because young children are thirsty and this will help keep them satisfied during a short shopping trip. Anything that lasts longer than half an hour should be divided by going out and back after a nearby snack.

4. Babies and very young babies should be happier with their pacifier or bottle filled with juice. Remember that they are thirsty but do not yet know how to order.

5. Older siblings can be helpful when you go shopping. They can help distract a little brother or sister by playing games or talking. Shopping for those older kids can be easier if they help. Try to cut out photos of the items you want and let them pick them out and put them in their shopping cart.

6. When paying at a grocery store, it is challenging due to all the temptations of the store location in the exit aisle. Promise them that if they are good and don’t hold on well, you could treat them to something after the store (ice cream or a Dunkin Donuts donut). Better yet, just tell them no! Look for stores with “child-proof” aisles where candy is not an option.

7. Try to buy when there are not many others buying at the same time. This makes the whole process quicker and much easier because you will not have strangers wanting to touch your new baby or give your older child candy etc. Especially don’t try to shop when you and they are hungry!

8. The good, the bad and the ugly of shopping with children! Carrying them with you presents problems, but it can also solve some. When shopping for toys, you can try letting them “try” a new game or toy to see if their interest will hold up or if they will tire quickly. This will help reduce the number of toys sitting in your toy box collecting dust. They can also learn to be patient by letting them know that they cannot have it now, but must wait until later. Or tell them it is for a friend or brother and you want to know if they will like it. Use experience to teach and learn patience.

9. Online shopping can be a good alternative for older children. They can look but not touch!

10. Be patient and use a shopping trip to teach not only patience, but also how to compare items like toys, games, and even clothes and shoes. They will learn what they prefer and you will learn about their individuality.