Single parents are becoming a new norm. And that single mom is overwhelmingly a working mom. Single parenthood is the result of urbanization. Over the years, the media have portrayed single-parent households as one of great difficulties, both psychological and economic, and often detrimental to the future of the children who live in them. Single mothers, in particular, have been subjected to numerous verbal attacks in which they are belittled and sometimes demonized for not being able to support their family and establish a stable home.
It requires attention, effort, intention and strong communication. These women feel like they carry the weight of the relationship, do most of the emotional work, and constantly have to find new and novel things to do to keep the relationship alive,” she said. “It gets frustrating when they don’t get the same attention. instead. Most women do not want to get divorced. This adds an extreme amount of undue pressure on her. This means that women actually have two jobs. While at the same time she is screaming for help.
Women want to feel appreciated. They don’t want to be second or third. When they speak, they want to feel heard. There was a time when there was love in the relationship. Arguments begin and communication breaks down. Often the woman will try anything to make her marriage work. Once they got married, she felt like she was walking in a fog: “She had lost my sense of identity.
I didn’t want my kids to grow up seeing me like this. They deserve more than that. Men feel close to their wives through intimacy. Women like to be known and heard. Love is not equal to control over the spouse. Remember the adage, “happy wife, happy life.”
Women often criticize men for their fear of commitment. Perhaps we are eager to commit because our partners are more likely to eventually be the ones to leave this “for life” partnership, not us. But then, in other ways, men are often to blame.
On the other hand, I believe that nonmarital relationships lack the historical baggage and expectations of marriage, which makes nonmarital relationships more flexible and therefore more adaptable to modern expectations, including the expectations of women. of greater gender equality.
Regardless of how family diversity is viewed, the rise and prevalence of single-parent families has a major influence on the social, economic, and political context of family life. The fact is that, despite the absence of one of the parents, the child still has a chance to succeed in life.
Therefore, being a single parent should be something to be proud of.
